- CAMPUS LIFE
dear dr. toughlove,
i’m a 21 yo male, and recently decided to try online dating. for the most part its been a waste of time… but recently i started talking to a girl on okcupid and now were chatting on facebook and texting. she seems cool and the pictures she sends are super hot. the only weird thing is she either refuses to hang out or makes excuses at the last minute to get out of it. i don’t get it. i pick cool places but she always flakes. and now theres this manti teo thing… i read that deadspin article and got super paranoid. am i being catfished too? all the signs are there. how can i find out if this girl is a catfish or at least get her to meet up with me?